I'm Back and I'm Disappointed ...
I'm Back and I'm Disappointed ...Posted on Apr 27, 2008 by Goddess Sonya
Not in the weather, but in the embarrassing behavior of six young ladies at a particular House of Domination here in NYC that will remain nameless ... These girls got busted on prostitution charges recently for allegedly accepting (very little) money for sex . I could laugh if it wasn't all such a crying shame.
Listen, I don't pretend to be a prude when it comes to these matters. We all know that with very good clients there is some level of contact, be it ass worship or face-sitting for example. But full blown intercourse? In the United States? For nickles and dimes? Come on!
In my opinion, true dominas do not offer intercourse to clients nor should they ever. If they want intercourse, they can hire an escort or have sex with their significant other. That's not what they come to us for (or at least that's been my experience and the experience of the ladies I know); they come to get from us what very few, not even the most gifted escorts can offer them - skill in the art of domination. Sex is the refuge of a woman who pretends to be a dominatrix but can't deliver the goods when the time comes. It's the old fallback of the inexperienced. Again this is only my opinion and I have nothing against sexual relations between a Mistress and a personal slave if she chooses.
That's not to say there aren't guys out there who enjoy their kinky sex, but as a domina it's our job to tell them they are barking up the wrong tree. This is why alot of these guys don't have respect for many of these ladies in the business. How can they when we can be had so easily for so little?
My heart goes out to these ladies and my sincerest regrets to the ones caught in the bust due to no fault of their own. I can't pretend to know their shame and embarrassment, but I do remember what it was like to be a housegirl and having to do appointments that weren't necessarily up my alley. I made mistakes like anyone starting out, but I left every shift with my integrity in tact and a little wiser in the ways of the business. Hopefully this experience will make these girls a hell of alot wiser in the end.